You are Capable of Anything – Here is the #1 Way to Accomplish Your Goal

Mar 23, 20224 min read

Updated: Jan 30

You are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. So, why do you sometimes get sidetracked or slide back into old habits? The answer lies in your mindset. Coming from a negative frame of mind can sabotage even the best intentions.

The #1 way to accomplish any goal isn’t just about having a solid plan or knowing your “why.” It’s about experiencing an energetic shift—a profound change in how you think and feel about yourself and your abilities. This shift begins in your mind and radiates into your actions, setting you on the path to success.

Stop Trying and Start Doing to Accomplish Your Goal

You’ve likely heard (and even said), “I tried my best.” But here’s the hard truth: “Trying” is a setup for failure.

Think about it. Trying is like sitting in a rocking chair—you’re busy but not going anywhere. When you say, “I’m trying,” it often means you’re hedging your bets, preparing for failure before you even start. Trying gives you an out.

The reason so many dreams are left unfulfilled isn’t because of failure—it’s because of the fear of failure. When you “try,” you’re holding back, doubting your ability, and playing it safe. People who truly accomplish their goals don’t “try.” They take action. They do.

There are only two possible outcomes when you take action:

It works.
It doesn’t.

That’s it. Both outcomes are valuable because they offer you something to learn and grow from.

To Experience is to Learn

Every choice you make—whether it leads to success or not—teaches you something about yourself. Each experience provides insight into what excites you and aligns with your values, strengths, and weaknesses.

Stop thinking in terms of success and failure, and start asking yourself:

What did I learn from this experience?
Did this align with my values and goals?
Did it make me a better version of myself?

When you shift your mindset from avoiding failure to embracing learning, every step becomes valuable to your journey.

Why You Should Stop “Trying”

Let’s look at two examples:

Trying: Sally knows she can sew and is thinking about how to turn that skill into a career. She spends hours researching crafting projects, machines, and materials. She’s exploring options but isn’t excited about any particular project. She never actually makes anything—she just keeps planning.

Doing: Susie loves to draw. She sketches a few pictures, makes photocopies, buys some crayons, and drops everything off at a local kids’ club. The kids are thrilled, and their excitement fills her with joy. Inspired, Susie learns how to publish a coloring book. Now, she’s earning passive income from her creation!

Do you feel the difference in energy between these two scenarios? Sally stays stuck in “thinking and trying,” while Susie takes action and discovers her passion through doing.

If Sally had stopped researching and made something, she might have uncovered whether crafting was a career path or a hobby. The key is to start doing and let the experience guide you.

How to Create Your Reality

If you’re unsure where to start, skip the overthinking and stop trying to perfect a plan. Instead, start with this exercise:

Visualize Your Best Life
Close your eyes and imagine your ideal life. Use all your senses—feel the sand between your toes, hear the sound of the ocean, or smell the fresh mountain air. What are you doing? Who is with you? Most importantly, how do you feel?
Sit with that visualization until the joy and excitement of your future self start to seep into your present.
Identify What Matters Most
When you open your eyes, ask yourself: What stood out the most in my visualization? Was it a sense of freedom, connection with family, adventure, or creativity? By identifying what holds the most value to you, you’ll uncover what’s truly important.
Take Inspired Action
Use what you learned from your visualization to guide your next steps. Focus on what excites you and aligns with your values. Don’t wait for the perfect plan—start doing it, even if it’s small.

Failure is Not the End

Failure is simply a redirection. It’s not the end of the road but an opportunity to learn, grow, and recalibrate. Even if you realize you’ve been heading in the wrong direction, that realization is valuable—it’s part of your growth.

When you stop trying and start doing, you’ll uncover more about yourself than you ever imagined. You’ll learn what works, what doesn’t, and what truly matters to you.