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Live Intentionally – The Hard, Honest Truth

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Updated: Jan 30

Manifesting the healthiest version of yourself begins with living an intentional life. Even when you feel stuck, encounter barriers, or experience setbacks, your next purposeful decision is an opportunity to align with your truth. Every intentional choice to prioritize what’s best for you brings you closer to your authentic self.


You can become whoever you choose to be, but being yourself—the person you were born to be—is freeing. If you’re unsure of who you are, exploring your ancestral roots may help you understand where you came from, but it won’t define where you’re going. There has only ever been one you, and there will never be another. That’s why it’s so important to explore and discover who you truly are so you can live authentically and intentionally.


What Does It Mean to Live Intentionally?


Intentional Life

Living intentionally means aligning your life with your authentic self—your unique personality, qualities, and spirit. When you live intentionally, you take ownership of your thoughts, words, and actions, ensuring they align with your values and beliefs. You become honest with yourself and others, living purposefully rather than reacting to outside influences.


An intentional life requires regular self-evaluation. Whether living in alignment or still searching for your purpose, it’s essential to check in with yourself occasionally. This is a lifelong process, as circumstances and challenges constantly evolve.


Trauma, for instance, can change your reality in an instant. Living by someone else’s rules, standards, or expectations can also detach you from your truth. When disconnected from your present experience, your thoughts, words, and actions may deceive you. Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “When am I going to catch a break? When will it be my turn?”


The truth is, your turn is now, and living intentionally is how you claim it.


The Power of the Present Moment

The present moment is the only time you can purposefully choose something better for your life. Every choice you make, whether it works out or not, is a learning opportunity. There’s no judgment or criticism—only growth.


When you embrace the present, you can:

  • Take action aligned with your purpose.

  • Learn from what works and what doesn’t.

  • Release fear and self-judgment.


Living intentionally doesn’t mean perfection. It means progress.


The Hard, Honest Truth

Living an intentional life requires honest self-assessment. Ask yourself these critical questions:

  • What worked well for me?

  • What didn’t work out?

  • How did I spend my energy?

  • Did my actions align with my goals?

  • Did I fall back into old negative habits?

  • Did something trigger me, and why?


Be brutally honest with yourself—this is the only way to create meaningful change. Self-awareness is the key to breaking free from cycles of self-sabotage. How many times do you have to backslide before you admit the truth? Stop lying to yourself.


When you live unauthentically, you deny parts of your true self. This denial creates what Carl Jung called the shadow self.


Understanding Your Shadow Self

Your shadow self is the part of you that you’ve hidden or rejected after a negative experience left you emotionally hurt. A painful life event may have led you to believe you needed to change or suppress parts of yourself to gain acceptance or avoid rejection.


The ego plays a significant role here. To protect you from rejection, it creates false and limiting beliefs that hold you back. These beliefs reinforce patterns of self-sabotage and keep you stuck in familiar, “safe” places—even if those places no longer serve you.


False beliefs keep you trapped, limiting your options and opportunities. When you live this way, you’re not living on purpose. Instead, you’re asking, “When will it be my turn?”—but the answer lies in accepting and integrating your shadow self.


Acceptance and Self-Forgiveness


Living intentionally means accepting every part of yourself, including your shadows. The parts of you hidden out of fear or pain are still a part of you, and they deserve love and compassion.


Self-acceptance requires forgiveness. Forgive yourself for denying parts of yourself, past mistakes, and holding yourself back. This process is integral to healing and living authentically.


Living Intentionally with Wild Moon Healing


When you prioritize self-acceptance, you unlock the power to manifest your healthiest, most authentic self. Living intentionally doesn’t mean you won’t face challenges or setbacks—it means you’ll approach them with clarity, purpose, and resilience.


At Wild Moon Healing, we guide you through this process by helping you align with your truth, embrace your shadow self, and create a life that honors who you are. Living intentionally means recognizing that you matter, your choices matter, and your life has purpose.


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